The Story Behind “Who TF did I Marry?” on TikTok Summarized
Reesa teesa, a tiktok creator, told her gripping tale of her unhappy marriage in a series of films called “Who TF did I marry?” Millions of people have seen the series, which chronicles her experiences with her ex-husband, “Legion,” and the lies and treachery that were found to have occurred during their marriage.
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Who TF did I Marry Brief
Over the course of 50 parts, Reesa Teesa’s tale on TikTok titled “Who Tf Did I Marry” centers on her experiences with her ex-husband, named “Legion.” She disclosed in the first section that they matched on Hinge after meeting on a dating site, and she found out he was using multiple names and images on these sites. She persisted in the connection in spite of many warning signs, and he divulged facts about his family history, including the assertion that both of his parents had passed away, and his work move from California to Georgia.
Episode 1-19 Summarized:
In early 2020, the woman met her ex-husband, Legion, and they quickly moved in together. Legion was generous, kind, and open, making it clear he wanted to take care of her. He would talk to his family and sometimes see his siblings in person, treating her family with kindness. They spent a considerable amount of time looking at houses together, with him offering up to a $700k cash offer on a house. However, none of these houses or offers worked out. He also took her to look at cars, but none of them worked out, except for one significantly cheaper than originally planned.
Legion’s phone was always vibrating, and she did not speak directly to him on the other line. By January 2021, they were married, and he started to switch up on her. He made comments about her work attire, heard male voices in the background of her calls, and called her at work to make sure she was where she said she was. He made up an incident about someone coming to their house looking for her, implying he thought she was cheating on him. She was aware of the incident due to footage on a neighbor’s doorbell camera.
Episode 20 and 21
The protagonist visits her grandparents’ grave and discovers he has a $90k company car in downtown Atlanta, which he claims is his office. She asks to see the car, but he schemes a reason for the situation to not progress beyond his personal responsibility. He pretended to have phone calls with the office manager to visit, but the manager denied them. This leads her to realize that there is always something that cannot happen. She mentions wanting to go overseas, and one day, he offers to take her on a summer trip to London, UK. They fill out passport applications, and her mom is supposed to visit in April.
Episode 22 and 23
In mid-March 2021, a man discovers a text from his aunt, who is also his ex-girlfriend. He discovers he has a few messages from other women discussing hooking up, which he claims is just flirting. He moves into the guest bedroom and seeks marriage counseling. They have been married for ten years. The pastor is concerned about the messages, and the husband claims they were about wanting attention. He apologizes and doesn’t feel the need to apologize more. After the first counseling appointment, he suggests they get a joint bank account.
The woman wants to compare accounts, and he shows her 15k in his chequing. He claims he has US Bank and offshore savings, but won’t show her because his uncle warned him about women wanting money. This becomes the topic of the next counseling session. The husband becomes defensive and plays victim to being questioned about his finances. The pastor and his wife suggest they should not be together, making the husband even more defensive.
Episode 24 – 27
In April, Reesa and her husband are looking for houses again, with their lease on the apartment set to expire soon. They find another realtor, Amber, who is a real estate agent, but they continue to waste their time. Reesa starts to feel embarrassed and decides to rent for another year.
She starts looking for another job to fund her car note, which he partially or completely pays for. When applying for a new job, they do a background check that requires collection of her husband’s government name and SIN/SSN. She notices that his SSN does not align with where he claimed he was born.
In May 2021, things start to re-open in their area, and she calls San Diego State University, which has no record of his SSN. He rebuffs this by claiming he was a private citizen/student and that his dad paid for his education. She points out that he claimed to play football and how the school would have been in compliance with NCAA rules if his name or information had never been published to a roster.
He sweeps everything under the rug, as he is in pain from a knee injury at work and starts taking pain medication. He claims it was an old football injury, and it became hard to walk and work on it. They are no longer looking for houses.
In mid-May, Reesa receives a call from her work saying that his step daughter has passed away. He asks her if she would object to him giving his ex-wife $2k for the funeral. A personal background check on him shows states he has lived in and people associated with him, including his ex-wife. He told his current wife that he and his ex-wife were married and divorced in San Diego, but his background check had no proof of him being in California.
According to divorce documents, both him and his ex-wife filed for a pauper’s divorce with her in Atlanta, with no financial liability. Reesa takes note of these pieces of info and plans to call the ex-wife.
Episode 28-32
Reesa, a woman, discovers that her ex-wife is in contact with a man who claims to be a master manipulator and has never been anywhere beyond the east coast. She asks about her daughter’s well-being, which she finds to be fine.
A few days later, Reesa searches for his mother’s obituary, which lists him as having another wife, not the one she just spoke to. The obituary also missing the mention of his supposed siblings. This disintegrates the dam of trust between the couple.
Reesa searches for his grandma’s name on Google and finds an old obituary for her, missing the mention of his two supposed sisters. She is confused because he has “talked” to them on the phone several times. His knee starts acting up again, and she insinuates that the knee is not the problem but a symptom of what’s going on.
In June 2021, Reesa finds his true previous addresses, divorce records, school records, and family obituaries, all of which he has lied about in some aspect or another. She tells the pastor everything, and the pastor is shocked and flabbergasted.
In June 2021, Reesa finds text messages between him and a woman he found on Plenty of Fish named Peaches, starting in February 2021. They exchange pictures and Peaches gives her rates after he inquires about what her services cost. Reesa finds a text message from the beginning of May where he THANKS HER for their time together. There are multiple incidences of him physically meeting up with her and contracting her services.
Reesa admits that at this point, it doesn’t phase her. She feels relieved because she has struggled with the notion of divorce with her deep faith, knowing that divorce due to infidelity would be condoned in his eyes and not condemned.
Episode 33 – 36
On June 17th, 2021, Reesa confronts her husband about never going to San Diego State or living in California. He argues that they have no record of him and they need to go their separate ways. Reesa is calm and tells him she doesn’t want to be married anymore and they need to go their separate ways. She calls his siblings, who are shocked by his lies.
Reesa’s aunt tells him to call his siblings, pack a bag, and get out of his house. He calls his aunt and overhears him talking to his aunt about how he never lied to her once. She feels like Carrie at prom and sneezes like a dry twig. Her mom tells him to get out and find something with his savings that he has been claiming to have.
He is limping around packing his stuff when she notices that he has been pissing in powerade bottles and not going to the bathroom due to his pain. She takes his keys, throws his shit in his car, and tells him to SCRAM, KID! Otherwise, she will beat his ass. By 1:30pm on June 17th, 2021, he is gone.
Reesa packs up all his stuff, changes her locks, and security codes. She texts her saying he made it to Philly. Reesa notes the parts will get shorter because there’s less backstory now, but he is still texting her because he is going to “fight her” on the divorce.
A message from his cousin on Facebook tells her that the husband was trying to get some of his family members to call the cop agency to get him fired or her fired. None of his family even knew that he was married.
Reesa asks about his siblings and finds out that the husband has a twin, which he claims is his younger brother but is his older twin. He also has no sisters and has been keeping up a charade that he has two half-siblings through his dad, which he absolutely did not. He also had a cousin named Junebug who died many years before. The cousin says the family does not fuck with the husband because he’s a pathological liar. Reesa clears things up and is encouraged by the cousin to get a divorce and get over it.
Episode 37 – 40
The woman is seeking a divorce settlement agreement signed by her husband, who has been traveling between Philly and Augusta. She has noticed that he has dropped significantly in weight and his family has kicked him out. The woman sends him $6 for chicken nuggets because he looks emaciated. She discovers that he has been living in his car and that all of his financial boasts are fake. He claims he has somewhere to go, staying with the family that kicked him out, and leaves.
The timeline surrounding her mom’s visit in April and how he left the condiment company is unclear. He had set up his exit by complaining about how they had treated him but only wanted to work at Apple for the same or more amount of money. He calls her a week later and says he quit and is moving over to Apple.
She finds paperwork from his termination from the company, his work at the cemetery, his drivers license, paystubs from a construction company, unemployment paperwork for January and February 2021, and a “weekender receipt” from a jail. She also talks to his brother, who he “talked to every day,” and finds out that they had a bad relationship and that the husband knew not to contact him. The brother revealed that the only family member the husband ever talks to is his twin, who is now the VP of his company. The twin brother has a 4-5 bedroom house, drives a luxury car, and has a beautiful wife.
The half brothers never existed, and the only thing that was true was that he did have two brothers and their parents are deceased. The uncle who warned the husband about women wanting his money was dead for years, and the cousin he talked to was dead. This is the family tree.
Episode 41 – 44
The older brother of the couple, Legion, has been accused of lying about their family history. His father was not a retired cop or a pastor, and his mother was not a retired teacher. He told Reesa to run Legion’s criminal history and explained that every time the husband claimed he sent gifts to his daughter, they never received anything.
Reesa goes through his old work phone, which is a secondary phone with receipts for adding minutes. She finds deleted pictures of his chequing and savings accounts and everything he had shown her. Her aunt, who is the mom’s best friend, calls her and asks about their baby. Legion lied to her aunt and told a number of people about the baby.
In July 2021, Reesa discovers that Legion’s ex-husband called her for money and lied about helping someone he wasn’t supposed to. He only ever went to jail and his dad expunged his record, and he married her quickly because he knew she would break up with him. His criminal history showed him arrested for trespassing, suspended license and registration, and impersonating an officer. He used his dad’s old CO badge to tell people he was an investigator looking for drugs and tried to pat down on someone and enter a woman’s apartment by force.
The woman expresses that she did not know she married to a registered felon. The older brother’s lies have exposed the truth about the couple’s family history and the lies they have been telling.
Episode 45 – 47
Reesa, a woman who has been uncontactable for two weeks, is contacted by people who have not spoken to her ex husband. They all seem to have no interest in him, as he has ruined their relationships and burned bridges. Legion harasses her, and law enforcement offers to let him return to her house, but Reesa warns him that she will report him for trespassing.
One day, law enforcement calls Reesa and finds a warrant for his arrest. The ex-husband, who has lost weight and is not looking okay, is arrested and asked to speak to Reesa. He claims he came back for his legally hers items from the divorce. The cops take him to the station, where he is taken to the station with his car keys.
Reesa returns to the mail, and she receives her final divorce decree from the court. She breaks down into a self-described ugly sob, feeling the weight of the situation lift a little bit. The ex-husband’s behavior has left Reesa feeling overwhelmed and scared, as she struggles to find solace in her relationships.
Episode 48 – 50
A woman calls her car company to repossess it, and they take it out of her driveway. He only has his two bags of clothes and his car, which were donated to a domestic violence shelter. His car was towed away with the clothes, and he was released with keys to a no longer had car, an empty wallet, and the clothes on his back. After her divorce papers were cleared and his arrest, the woman slept well and moved house. In December 2021, Legion calls her work to get her contact information, but she sends him a message warning her of a restraining order if he contacts her again. This is the last time she speaks to him. The woman accepts that he never loved her, but is amazed by the amount of time and effort he put into lying and the cruelty he enjoyed. She accepts she will never know everything and has made peace with that.
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